Confidence

con·fi·dence

  [kon-fi-duhns]

–noun

1.

full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliabilityof a person or thing: 

2.

belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance

"Confidence is what makes a girl sexy."

"Confidence; wear it like make-up."

"Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes."

“To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.”

No one is perfect and everyone has flaws, and i'm sure your thinking you heard this all before, But really believe it the next time you feel you've done something wrong, or just feeling down about yourself.

You need to believe in yourself and know that you are good enough for whatever it is your trying to achieve!

Heres some guidelines on how to achieve confidence for those of you whom may need help in knowing how great you really are.

1. Recognize your insecurities. find out why it is you feel ashamed of yourself,it could range from any sort of thing such as a skin problem, or maybe just a person whom may try to belittle you, whatever it is put a name to it. in order to overcome an issue you must first address it!
2. Talk it over with a loved on or a trusted friend. hearing the issue come out of your mouth will really change things around for you. it will wear the problem down.You need to learn to accept yourself, and your past as they are, without necessarily thinking of them as "bad".  and the person whom your telling might have really wonderful advice on how to best overcome it.
3. Be Positive! even though you may not be in a good mood, exert positivity as much as you possibly can! when someone is positive it makes them more likable and approachable. Most importantly Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior--they can only do so if you let them.
4. Accept Compliments. when someone tells you something nice its because they truly mean it, so next time someone tells you "You look so pretty today!" don't react by saying "yeah right" or "Definitely Not!" Accept it and appreciate it and respond with something positive!
5. Try New Activities. Take up a new Dance class or maybe even Karate! or maybe just get a gym membership work on improving something that may bother you, just do something that will ultimately make you feel better about yourself and the way you see yourself. Even get a new Hair cut or maybe a new hair color change is always good,(with good intentions that is!)

 "Always be yourself because the people who mind don't matter and the people that matter, don't mind"

Everyone is different and Everyone is Beautiful.

My Favorite makeup Items

Since this blog will deal with makeup as well as other things, i wanted to post a blog showing you all my Favorite make-up items i have on me at all times!




Urban Decay Primer Potion

Loreal True Blend Foundation (color soft honey)

Urban Decay Baked Bronzer

MAC Cream colour base (Shell)

MAC Powder Blush (Blunt)

MAC Lustre Lipstick (Pretty Please)

Too Faced Brow Envy Kit

Loreal Voluminous Mascara (Carbon Black)

Urban Decay Eye Shadow (shag)

This is the makeup that i use for my everyday look and it comes out phenomenal, I highly recommend the items, they're affordable and work great! 

HeartBreak

heart·break·ing  (härtbrkng)

adj.

1. Causing overwhelming grief or distress.

2. Producing a strong emotional reaction:

"When I found out
How you messed me about
I was broken (heartbroken)
Back then I believed you
Now, I don’t need you
No more"


Amazing song.




"Farewell, Love, and all thy laws forever;
Thy baited hooks shall tangle me no more. "
-Thomas Wyatt




"No more dreaming like a girl so in love, so in love
No more dreaming like a girl so in love with the wrong world."

Realize yourself worth and stop blaming yourself. You're not the only one going through heartbreak, Its happened to every single person that has ever walked this earth, you will overcome it, it's a healing process that will take a lot of strength. Once you overcome this you will be strong enough to  overcome ANYTHING. 
Always remember: Time heals all! with time comes strength and knowledge, 
You will learn from this experience and will become a wiser person. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
And NEVER regret it, if it was good, well then it's wonderful, if it's bad then it's an experience to learn from and grow from, At least you now know warning signs to look out for next time.


Some of you make think you will never allow yourself to love again, and thats a completely normal thought, it's hard to picture yourself with someone else. and thats only because with the state your in now you shouldn't be with someone else, at least not for the time being. you need to let your heart mend before it explodes!


Just remember that your beautiful and have so many talents and things going for you, and though you may not feel like thats true right now, your going to find someone when you least expect it and they're going to be 'The One' Theres someone for everyone : )